June 26, 2025

Sweet Sixteen

Grace has hit sweet sixteen. Whenever I asked what she wanted for her birthday, she told me she wanted an eyebrow piercing. I was of the strong opinion she had enough holes in her face. Alas, she wore me down.

On her sixteenth birthday, she took a long lunch, I met her at the piercing shop, and now she has more holes in her face. She is happy.

Everyone was busy this year, so we just had a low-key celebration at home in the evening. It was a bit of a let down from her usual parties, but it was still nice.
 

I can't believe that she only has two more years as a child. It happened so fast!

June 24, 2025

Choir Concert


 I'm not usually given to tears and weeping. As my kids have gotten older, I have felt a little sad that they were growing up, but mainly I love watching my children grow and become even more independent. Graduations, award ceremonies, and putting children on planes have yet to make me cry.

Watching Sam at his last junior high concert got a me a little misty eyed, though. I have sat through so many concerts in this auditorium.  The faces keep changing. I've watched singing, plays, awards, orchestra concerts, and more here. I have seen so many teachers come and go. Some of the first people I watched on this stage are now getting married and in some cases having babies of their own. Watching Sam, my youngest, sing his last song on this stage as a junior high student gave me some big emotions. I got misty eyed knowing this was my last concert, of my last kid, in junior high. They have grown faster than I ever imagined. 

June 20, 2025

Prom

Grace is only a sophomore, but, she still had the opportunity to attend prom. Her best friend is a junior and invited Grace as her plus one. Grace and Lily have been friends since they were eight years old, and are now inseparable. 

Grace and I went to every thrift store in Boise, visited the mall, ordered a vest off of Amazon, and she still was not happy with the options. On prom night, she pulled this black vest out of her closet (where it had been the whole time) added some red buttons and a tie, put on the thrifted pants and went to prom. I managed to keep my head from exploding.  Prom shopping is my personal seventh circle of hell. So far I have taken two daughters prom clothes shopping, and I have barely survived. So.many.big.emotions.

After everyone got dressed (Lily spent $15 on her dress at a thrift store) we added a few flowers, and Michael took them out for a photo shoot. The pictures might have made the whole struggle worth it.

I love these girls!




 

Easter

Easter snuck up on me this year. I managed to buy the treats and plan for dinner, but I lost the easter baskets. The kids didn't have any objections to their half pathetic "baskets" though. They got candy and salty treats, so they were happy. This year we only had three baskets, as Libby is in Washington. I did get her treats in the mail, along with a WinCo gift card. She was very excited to have a few extra dollars for groceries.


Despite the face, Sam was happy for snacks, just not happy to be awake.


We spent the evening having dinner at Becca's house, where she hosted an egg hunt.

These kids are never to big to hunt for eggs. They are full on teenagers, but they can still enjoy acting like kids. The competition can get pretty fierce, though.

Grace ended the day practicing her handstands. Every day is spent practicing her handstands. She spends a lot of time upside down.  Sometimes that is the best way to cope with what life keeping throwing at you. 

April 11, 2025

Obituary

 Edna Ellen Potts Hawks



With profound sadness, we announce the passing of Edna Ellen (Potts) Hawks at a hospital in Meridian, Idaho, on March 22, 2025, at the age of 80. She left this world a beloved sister, aunt, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Her surviving family finds comfort in the belief that she has been reunited with her daughters Sue Ellen and Heidi.

Edna was born on February 7, 1945, in Ontario, Oregon, the fourth of seven children to Sam and Afton Potts. She spent her childhood in Arizona, Idaho, and Oregon, where she developed a deep love for nature. Exploring the wild areas around her home brought her the greatest contentment.

She attended high school in Payette, Idaho, where she met Ellis Hawks. They also shared the same church community, and during her senior year, Ellis proposed. They married on September 6, 1963, in the Salt Lake Temple in Salt Lake City, Utah. Together, they built a life centered around family, exploration, and learning.

Edna and Ellis raised their family in small towns across Idaho and Oregon. While balancing the demands of motherhood, Edna pursued her lifelong passion for geology. Rockhounding was more than a hobby to her - it was a way of understanding the world. She collected, studied, polished, and turned rocks into jewelry. She shared her enthusiasm with her children, often turning car trips into impromptu geology lessons. Her summers were filled with rock and gem shows, and her love of the land extended to native plants and wildlife. She often found edible roots and greens that she cooked and occasionally served to those willing.  

Although Edna was unable to pursue higher education herself, it became one of her greatest aspirations for her children. She instilled in them the belief that education was a gateway to opportunity. She loved seeing her children and grandchildren achieve their academic and professional goals. Later in life, she fulfilled a personal dream by attending a geology class at Boise State University.

Above all, Edna’s greatest pride was her family. She raised eight children, six of whom survive her, and adored every grandchild and great-grandchild who joined the family. She welcomed each new generation with love, support, and encouragement.

Edna was preceded in death by her daughters Sue Ellen Hawks and Heidi Hawks, her brother Robert Potts, and her sisters Hazel Harris and Barbara Scoggins. She is survived by her siblings Darlene (Willie, deceased) Fraley, Clifford (Jeannie) Potts, and Jimmy (Kayleen) Potts; her former husband Ellis Hawks; her children Krys (Bruce, deceased) Courtois, Ellis (Kristi) Hawks, Lucinda (Jefferey, deceased) Moebius, Joseph (Kerry) Hawks, Becca (Jeff Hawkins) Hawks, and Katie (Michael) Hobson. She also leaves behind 21 grandchildren and 13 great and step-great-grandchildren.

Edna taught us the world is vast and full of wonder, and we should embrace it. Each time we see a beautiful stone or a wild mushroom, we will remember her.

A celebration of Edna’s life will be held on May 24, 2025, at 11 a.m. in the large pavilion at Esther Simplot Park in Boise. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to a favored charity, honoring her love for exploration, creativity, and family.